I (17F) people pleased for so long to the point where I don’t even know who I am anymore. I don’t even have a personality to call my own, I just feel super fake constantly and even when I’m alone I don’t feel like I’m truly myself.
Does anyone know how to fix this? I suffer from really low self-esteem too and don’t know how to solve this. This is impacting my relationships too – I’ve lost so many friends.
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Your too kind with others,
You have to know that you will lose almost all of these fake friends at first in order for you to know who you really are and what you want.
If I’m right I guess you always think of what others will think of you or how disappointed they will be if you don’t do what they expect you to , All of us obviously feel that but I mean you have it strongly
Anyway I’m available to chat if you’d like to talk more but my advice for you if I’m right is to stop caring