What does it say about someone if others feel stimulated or fueled after conversing with them?

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1. You ever heard the term fluffer? People that amp other people up and prepare them for being on stage or for a speech or performance …. My experience of meeting people like this, ultra charismatic, everyone loves …. Is they say a lot of great stuff but don’t follow through. It doesn’t really mean anything. They might work in PR or be really good at entertaining and hosting … Putting on a show! But even though they make you feel a special connection to them… Usually nothing meaningful underneath.

2. It generally means they are able to put people at ease and be supportive to them in a way that leaves their conversation partner feeling good about themselves. They focus on the other person, give them supportive energy, and share ideas/thoughts that amplify the other person’s excitement and confidence. People who are seen as charismatic often leave people feeling this way after interactions.