Guys how to surpass resentment?

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1. Flesh that out in an edit

2. People might hate me for saying this but….

   Take the proper legal action or get over it. Nothing else you really can do

3. One thing about resentment is that you keep replaying the past. So you gotta decide what the future is going to look like with whatever new guidelines you have in mind. You gotta practice those guidelines and maybe you can get some revenge in the process as long as it’s not gonna be some big drama that can get you in trouble later.

   be comfortable with the idea that your revenge might take place 10 years from now. Sometimes those are the best ones.

   apart from that, you might just stay angry for a while, that’s a part of the grieving process bro. You went through some injustice shit that was pretty fucked up. It’s gonna make you feel real pissed off and sad for a long time. We all deal with it. We all deal with resentment that we carry for a long period of time so you’re not alone in all of this man. If there’s someone that you can talk to about this stuff for a while, it might help you reduce a little bit of the homicidal part if you have that going, not saying you got that, but just in case, just to help ease the pain a little bit

4. Understand why you have it in the first place

5. Were you ever the target for resentment?

6. deal with it directly or let time kill the feelings until you don’t think about it anymore. Nothing else

7. Cry like a top g

8. Live your best life. Have so much fun in the present that you don’t care as much about the past.

9. I don’t surpass is :,(