I don’t know if here’s a right place to ask… anyways, I’m a single child and 25 years old, a transman (I operated 7 years ago). My parents specially my mother, still behave me like a kid and they don’t trust my abilities.
I’ve had many accomplishments so far and they should be a proof for them that I know my shit.
I started to workout by my own and right now I’m competing with biological males.
I decided to study abroad (I’m a middle eastener) and started to self study English and finally got my certificate and i went to Italy all alone. Right now it’s my 4th year.
I started to get more knowledge in self-actualization, Psychology, philosophy and spirituality, even had a mystic psychedelic experience, and all these made me a lot more mature than even my parents.
And lots and lots of small and big achievements that my parents are not even have enough willpower or/and courage to do them.
What’s the problem that they don’t trust in me as an adult?
I appreciate your time for reading.
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I wouldn’t necessarily talk about trust, but rather that a lot of parents are reluctant to accept that their son/daughter has gotten older, is no longer dependent on his/her parents and has built a life of their own.
Yes, of course most people want other people to look at us the way we like to look at ourselves. adult people.
But parents in particular have the biggest problems there.
I wouldn’t push it that hard.
Unfortunately, the best solution is time. Yes, this may have been going on for a long time, but eventually they will adapt and see that you are now an adult.
You’re more mature than your parents. That sounds exactly like what a mature person says.
You are psychologically ill … infact all tr***s are ill as like pe*ophilez . There are only 3 genders male , female and third gender .