Am I (F20) being picky or is he M20) rude? Wary of going on a third date.

We met on Tinder and planned to meet at a diner for our first date. He was okay attraction wise but I hoped as I got to know him it would grow.

It was decent conversation but it wasn’t an automatic hit off. He was cool. But the main issue was that the second half of the date was just him already planning our second date. That really threw me off so I tried to say I’ll let him know when we’ll meet up.

He kept trying to push meeting again the next day. That day was a Monday and he wanted to meet again immediately and told me as such on our first date.

I told him to slow down.

I thought it was just me being too picky so I chose another day. That day, it was super short because we both busy and we barely talked. But just like the first date, he attempted to plan another date while we were still hanging out. He asked me what days I was available and I said Wednesday and Thursday. Then he replies quite bluntly with, “it’s a yes or a no.”

But that wasn’t what you asked. That really irked me. I never felt any sexual attraction to him and i think my view of him got worse and could be affecting how I really see him.

He already asked me if I chose a place for our third date but I’m feeling reluctant.

Any advice?