Men of Reddit, what do you do when interested in a woman?

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1. Talk and get to know them and if we get along I’ll ask to hang out.

2. Post on Reddit to see what other men do first….

3. Pull her braids and call her names. Works like a charm./s

4. Eye contact. Smile. Say hi. Are you busy? No? Can we grab a coffee and a bite to eat?

5. Nothing, just ignore that feeling and continue with life

6. My actions go from between moron to idiot.

7. Beat chest to establish dominance.

8. Ask m’lady for a crum of pussy, perchance.

9. Take a pee at her door steps to claim the territory.

10. Nothing

11. I tell her and show her if not rejected from the get go.

12. Move along. It’ll pass.

13. i say hi, how’s it going? if she responds positively, we chat. if not, i walk away and forget about it.

    i’ve made a lot of women friends that way.

14. Cower in fear and feel stupid to not know How to flirt.

15. Usually turn into a babbling idiot and ruin any chance I have.

16. Look at her a few times. Go back to what I’m doing. Look at her again “aw shit she made eye contact, look away look away”. Never look again. Leave the bar.

17. I smile briefly in their direction and hope for the best.

    This tactic doesn’t work.

18. Have a wank and see if I have the same feelings afterwards for a start. Then I remind myself I have no social skills and don’t go out so that will never happen anyway

19. Follow her home to make sure there’s no creep following her

20. Mostly avoid them at all costs because attractive women make me nervous 😂

21. Nothing, to avoid being a creep.

22. Nothing. I feel shame for having feelings and move on with life.

23. Distract myself with something else, apply cold water or light slaps to my face, absent myself from her presence or at least turn away until I can face her as just another person, imagine her projectile vomiting – the usual.

24. Act like I am not interested until I don’t feel it anymore, I just don’t think it’s worth the trouble and who would like me either way?

    But maybe you can try talking to her

25. I don’t do anything. I am aware I’m not the most attractive or charismatic person and I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable by approaching them. So I do nothing and wait for the feelings to pass. It’s worked for all of my crushes.

26. This will be boring but… if I do decide to initiate something I try to find a way to have a real conversation with her to find out who she is and what her personality and sense of humour are like. Initial attraction aside, I need to know if you’re someone I want to spend time with outside the physical. Hook up culture isn’t my thing.

27. Life a whole life with her in my head for about 30 seconds then shake out of it and go about my day

28. Avoid her at all costs

29. Well sometimes you get scared.

30. When I first messaged my gf, I asked her for advice on something that I thought really suited her. “You have such pretty hair, any advice on keeping it curly?” For example – this way she could accept the compliment and not have to think about what else to say, as I’ve already set up her response. If you like someone, make it as easy as possible 🙂

31. sweat profusely.

32. I lose my ability to talk to her.

33. Usually keep them to myself because I have no idea how to tell a woman I like them and even when I do it’s never ended good for me

34. Avoid her at all cost

35. Refuse to speak to her or acknowledge her existence. Gotta stay safe out there

36. Nothing

37. h i d e .

38. Pretty much everything but ask them out.