How often do you fantasize about people other than your partner? If you do, does it affect your relationship in anyway?

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1. all the time. every day. every night, haha

   but my fantasies always include her, so it’s always a threesome fantasy

2. Never 🤷‍♂️

3. Assuming that I had one likely not. I don’t feel comfortable fantasizing about real people because it feels perverted.

4. Most days, but we also discuss them with each other.

5. I feel like it used to be way more than it is now. I’d say the vast majority of the time, if I’m fantasizing about anyone, it’s a partner. Other times, it might be recalling good moments from past relationships, missed connections that might have been, etc.

   It has no effect on my relationships, and it’s not something that happens connected to having sex with a partner, just on my own time if at all.

6. I rarely fantasize, but when I do it’s about whomever my current partner is.

7. Are story characters eligible for this question? If so, it just adds to the fun with a bit of roleplay.

   Actual people? Yes, i do on occasion. No, it doesn’t affect my relationship. I know where my loyalty lies

8. Yes, friends and coworkers mostly!

9. When I’m in a relationship, it happens a lot honestly. Grass is greener type situation I guess.

10. I’ll see an attractive woman and wonder what she looks like naked. But I’m not fantasizing about sleeping with her usually. And I know she does the same. It doesn’t effect our relationship at all.