Women who lost their virginity to a hookup, do you regret it? How was the experience?

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2. No, I don’t regret it. It was really nice. Ultimately, I was glad not to have to see the person I first had sex with; I saw it as a sort of practise round. But I got lucky in that she was a good person and I had a genuinely enjoyable first time, despite it being a one-night stand—I think knowing that it was a one-night stand actually took some of the pressure off.

3. I was thinking about this the other day! There was this guy and I was young, very young lol and I was like “oh I wanna lose my virginity to him” so we tried, it was too tight for him to get in tho lol so we just stopped. A few years later I met this great guy and he ended up taking my virginity and to this day is still a great friend. The original guy I mentioned, I saw him recently and brought up that story and he’s like oh I don’t remember that, lol! So long story short I’m glad he didn’t take it hahaha.

4. No I don’t regret it because there is no such thing as “virginity” so there was nothing to lose.

   It wasn’t good – and the first time usually isn’t, but it was an experience I made and I can live with it.

5. I don’t regret it, but it wasn’t good by any definition.

   Very awkward and quick thing, we never really saw each other again after that

6. No, don’t regret it. So I had attempted to lose my virginity a few times and once the guy found out I was a virgin they backpedaled and weren’t interested. To me it just wasn’t important and I wanted to experience it because I had always been a highly sexual person. I lost my virginity to a friend, we weren’t dating, it just kind of happened. I didn’t tell him before hand I was a virgin. We continued being friends for a while after and I told him like 6 months later when it came up in conversation that I was virgin before him. He felt bad because he said he would have “made it special” but then he followed it up by saying “I guess you’re lucky I’m not overly endowed” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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8. I don’t have any regrets bc I really just wanted to get the first time out of the way. The sex itself was really bad, but he’s a good guy and we’re still friends!

9. I was 18, she was in her late 50s, we were both drunk, it felt okay but I started crying and she got uncomfortable and left the room and then I cried more cause I ruined in by crying

   She helped me out though and was nice to me so not really upset for having known her more just upset that we slept together

   I think we both regretted it, being a bit older I think she felt guilty