People who are or have been married, what’s a red flag that you are NOW aware of after marriage, that didn’t cross your mind before you were married? Something that would be a dealbreaker that you didn’t think about before being married.

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1. Willingness to seek out help for mental health. I didn’t even think about it before I was the one who needed it. Now I think that I wouldn’t be able to be married to a person who refuses to seek out help when it affects theirs and our quality of life.

2. Not being complimented. In my first marriage we were really young and I overlooked a lot. I got 1 compliment our entire relationship. A particular shirt looked nice on me. It’s sad that over 10 yrs later I still remember that.

3. To look for red flags to begin with is the biggest thing. It’s usually all there in the dating stage it just gets ignored. Never get complacent.

4. Male friends. I would absolutely not be okay with my wife having male friends.