So I gave this dude that I really liked head and can’t tell if he thought it was good or not because he couldn’t finish. But when I was giving head at the beginning he was like moaning and all, but his dick was twitching in my mouth- was he trying to hurry up and finish cause I was awful? Idk, I felt bad because I think he would’ve gotten off if I didn’t have to feel like I was going to puke so I has to stop for a while. He tells me I did amazing but idk if he’s telling the truth or not 🙁
He also said he needed a cigarette after and he’s never had that happened for a while and idk what it means ;-;
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Sometimes I can’t cum from a bj or sex. He may be in medication that causes him difficulty. If you’re concerned talk to him.
Some men do not cum from BJs. Ever. Regardless of if it’s good or not.
If he said it was good, believe him
Okay I don’t have so much experience in sex but I have never cum with a blowjob. I can safely say that I received amazing blowjobs. They were sucking passionately and I was enjoying it a lot but I never felt like a will cum by a bj for a long time.
On the other hand, I have a premature ejaculation problem. Most of the times I come in 1 min in vagina and even for 2 times, I came as soon as I was inside
Not every man can come easily that way. And every man has different preferences for head so there isn’t a universally perfect method other than don’t bite it.
You’re probably doing fine, but there’s no harm in asking him if there’s anything special or different he’d like you to do.
Don’t ask, am I bad at head? Do ask, is there anything special you’d like me to do/try?
When you’re in process, check in him and ask him if it feels good in a sexy voice. Experiment and pay attention to how he responds. His body will tell you everything, even if he doesn’t come.
Blowjobs are bizarrely difficult to cum from. It’s always been my experience, and it’s only from this sub that I’ve learned that it’s common. Even if you’re good at it, even if he’s enjoying it, it doesn’t always end in an orgasm. Much like PIV sex for a lot of women, I suppose. Something doesn’t have to end in an orgasm to be fucking amazing.
If it seems like he was trying to hurry up and finish, it’s probably because he was self-conscious about not cumming from something as objectively awesome as a blowjob. Been there.
The cigarette comment means you were really good.
I love having my dick sucked but I prefer to cum inside or being jerked off. Head is just the warm up for me.
If he says you were ”amazing” I would believe him.
Some guys find it very difficult to cum through oral.
If you’re concerned you can always ask him if there’s something else you can do. Or, just try lots of different techniques and ask him every step of the way how it feels. Ask if he wants it tighter, softer, more wet, deeper, more focus on the head, less, etc…. try it all.