I’ve never been physically with a guy. Last week I went on holiday in hostels and I noticed every time I was left alone in my dorm with another guy I suddenly had all these urges to ask him to touch me with the utmost confidence that he won’t reject me. I guess having no one around reduced the chance of embarrassment. It was fascinating because had we not been alone in a dorm I probably wouldn’t think twice about the guy. All these animal instincts came out cos I was in an intimate setting, sex was so easily accessible
1. Have you ever experienced this
2. What’s the chance the guy feels the exact same way
3. Am I stupid for advancing in a situation like that
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As a guy, I totally dig the idea of a girl in my hostel looking for some on fun vacay. And I think there is a strong chance you will meet a fella into that kind of thing. Maybe ask if he will help you pick out some clothes for the day/night and then ask if he minds if you change in front of him, you know to be exciting on holiday. See where it goes…
1. Yes. Chemistry is real, and physical chemistry is a thing.
2. If you’re feeling it, there’s a pretty decent chance he’s feeling it too
3. Absolutely not. Odds are good that he wants to, but is hesitant to make the first move for fear of looking like a creep if you’re not interested.
If no one is getting hurt, go for it 🤷♂️