How many chances do women usually give you?

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1. For first dates usually just the one.

   In relationships it depends on the girl and what ive done, I can imagine if I ever cheated I wouldn’t get a second.

2. Depends on how much they like you. If you’re sitting in a bar getting to know each other and you step into a pile of shit she may walk away right there. If you’re already in a relationship you will get more chances.

3. Ummm…Zero.

4. Chances? I’m not aware of any chances.

5. My personal experience is somewhere between 1-6

6. Unlimited

7. None

8. It depends. During the talking stage it’s usually just over when you make a mistake. But the further you get together the more you tolerate of each other.

   It also heavily depends on the amount of options a girl has. If she’s got 100 other options she’s not going to take anything from you.

9. Don’t know I usually land on community chest

10. If they are single, they don’t give chances, I have to take one

    If they’re in a relationship already then they are a bit more generous on average

11. Ranges from none to a lot, depending how well I know then and what type of relationship we are in.

12. None lol

13. Some women don’t even give you one chance.

    The question is open because “women” is too general a population.

14. Way too many. Idk what that limit looks like. Glad I grew out of that

15. Chances for what?

16. Chances for what?

17. My wife gave me three. Showed up to our first in-person date in a Hawaiian shirt, she almost bailed. But stuck around, because we hit it off amazingly.

    Showed up to our second date in a Utilikilt. She nearly bailed. But stuck around, because I made her laugh and feel comfortable being herself.

    Finally, to make the story a lot shorter, I did a couple of kind of needy things really close together, but she stuck around because I’d proven already that I was worth it. We talked it out, and I learned from my errors.

    We celebrated our seventh anniversary back in July.

18. I’ve been in a cycle of breakups and hookups with a girl for almost twelve years now

    And, like, we aren’t even friends, then something happens and we start talking, get laid, foom around for a couple of weeks/months, a dumb fight followed by a “goodbye forever” that only last like a year tops and then we start again

    I feel so old to keep doing this but it’s like the only interesting that I have in my life so fuck it

19. unlimited when in a relationship and 1 for a short term fling.

20. Depends…. If you don’t know them, probably next to 1 chance.. But the more you know them and the longer you know them for or especially if it’s a toxic relationship then it’s it’s pretty much infinite.

21. None

22. They don’t, why would they? It wouldn’t be like they saw in the movies.

23. Chances for what?

24. Zero. They usually stop answering after we exchange like 5-6 messages, or don’t agree when I ask them for a date. I know the rabid dogs are out there so – no, I don’t trauma dump early. I don’t view them as free therapists. I don’t make weird sexual comments. I just talk to them either about the subject we connected over or I ask her stuff about herself.

    Courting after woman is bizarre – the utter lack of curiosity is… depressing.

25. Less than we want, but more than we deserve.

26. I’ve never had a girlfriend not even one in primary school

27. Very vague question OP, women has very different tolerance levels. So it depends; did I leave the toilet seat up or forget to flush a deuce?
    Or
    Did i sleep with her best friend or her Mom?

28. Ask her.

29. I don’t go after or ask out women to know how many chances they would give me.

30. What does that mean?

31. More than they probably should

32. Zero.

33. I rarely get 1, I dont think Ive ever gotten more than 1

34. None, I get maced fairly quickly

35. Not even one lol 😢

36. Zero

37. Depends on the game i guess. Usually none.

38. While not in love, zero.
    In love.. Daily chances for 16 years.
    Stopped giving chances around 2 weeks ago

39. To do what?

40. OP Are you asking how many chances I get if I fuck up with a girl I am already dating ? (alot)

    or

    If I fuck up during like talking /early stage ( good amount of shots to fumble and recover usually).

41. I’ve gotten a few chances I’d say 4 or 5 not cheating just being insecure/ weary of being too vulnerable. I was in a 12 year relationship and I don’t wanna get hurt how I did before so it’s sort of weird been together with gf almost a year now. I guess I get in my head and connect things that aren’t there or over think and it comes off bad.