I’m (23F) having issues with my (27M) boyfriend, who likes to finish on my face basically every time we have sex, specifically he cums in my eyes.
I told him I’d prefer if he stopped, because it’s a pain to be temporarily blinded every time he finishes. He said that he could try but it’s hard. He said he just loves looking into my eyes as he finishes. He also is self conscious of his O face, so it makes him feel a little better that I can’t see it. He’s also obsessed with my eyes, it was the first thing he noticed when we met. I love that he loves my eyes so much, but maybe we can give it a break? Any suggestions on how to talk to him?
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Help him find other ways to finish. Help him come up with other ideas by talking about it. Maybe suggest finishing on your boobs instead? Tell him you want it (if he think you want it, I think that would help). If you don’t mind him finishing in you face every now and then let him. But actively encourage other ways.
Wearing glasses is one solution
You tell him you don’t like it. Find other places or ways for him to cum. Ask him why that’s the the absolute only way to cum too because it may mean he has some other issues. Either way he should respect your wishes.
Must admit it’s something I really miss about my ex that she used to let me finish on her face as she looked at me. It’s pretty much burned into my memory now and conjures mixed feelings, both pleasant and sad. My current partner doesn’t permit me to finish like that, but she gives mind-blowing head and lets me finish in her mouth so .. I guess I’ve led a blessed life and been lucky enough to have been with more than one sexually gratifying partner.
What I’m trying to get at is, there’s probably a way to substitute his preference, but if you throw him a bone with the facials still now and again, he should have you securely in his mind as the most special and sexually gratifying lovers he’s ever had.
Tell him to start Cumming on his own face see how he likes it. My wife might… might let it happen in the shower and I appreciate it everytime but life is not porn. If he wants to live like a pornstar he needs to whip it out see if he compares and try to live the life. Wherever they are filmed. Little edit 99% of the dudes in porn are gay for pay. So it would make it easier for him to see if he could see through cum.
I always let my partner finish on my face if he wants to but I’ve never had an issue of getting cum in my eyes apart from a few times that were completely by accident. Perhaps you suggest that he only goes below your eyes and in your checks/ chin. Maybe wearing classes too I know some guys really love girls wearing classes when giving a facial so maybe that’s something he might be into
Oh, the results of porn. Another generation with porn expectations extending into their bedrooms
Wdym? Literally tell him no. Set the boundary and tell him he can do it only if you’ve given consent each time. You need to stick up for yourself.