When do you think it is time to leave a group of friends, particularly one you’ve been in for a long time?

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1. When the behaviours are destructive- ie all about partying / getting wasted etc

2. When your priorities, interests, and goals are no longer in line.

3. Life tends to take care of it. You just develop yourself and your habits and the people who are not in the same vibe will disappear on their own.

4. In my late teens I kindof realised that the group I fell in with was on a different life trajectory to me, We all were kindof the same at ~16, but at 19 sitting on the couch and smoking weed all day isnt as cool.

5. When the drummer shows up with a song he’s written…..

6. When I no longer enjoy spending time with them. Usually because their interests and mine no longer align.

7. If you’re asking if it’s time to leave its probably time to leave.

8. When I realize none of them care about me and they basically already abandoned me out of the group anyway

9. **Trust me, you’ll just know.**

10. It usually just happens without a stout decision. You spend yout time elsewhere because that’s where’d you’d rather be

11. If you’re thinking that you should leave your friends because you’re noticing toxic behaviours in then, then it’s already overdue.

12. My friends got hard-core into drugs and doing illegal shit and I didn’t wanna end up like that.