What age will I glow up in my teenage year and when will it be my ugly stage?

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1. Everyone is different man

2. This is a sus question. This isn’t a story about ugly duckling. If you are ugly now you most likely stay ugly.

3. We go through stages of life and expectations are different at each one.

   As a teenager its all about being good looking and popular. I found this stage particularly hard as a guy for dating.

   Early 20’s is similar just with slightly more responsibilities. Usually we are into our first part-time job and post-secondary here. Women at this age block are being pursued by everyone and know they are highly desirable. I found dating doable at this stage but a lot of work.

   Late 20’s and early 30’s are where the gap suddenly widens. This is the stage where most guys get established in life. Many of us are into our careers and buying vehicles and our first homes. At this stage it very much becomes about the complete package you bring to the table. I found dating was just a fish in a barrel situation for me at this stage of life, there were always women around who were interested in dating and a potential relationship. If I went online I had no problems rapidly finding attractive women who’d meet up for a date. Women at this stage where much more in a rush to lock you down once they filtered you and you could feel the pressure coming off some of them.

4. I’m 24 and still ugly. I don’t know what to tell you man

5. Ugly stage?

6. uhhh this question kinda suggests OP is like 12….please dont be true

7. Seriously? Dont think that way of yourself… if you think that way, then you will never come out of the ugly stage waiting for your “glow” stage. Just believe you are in your glow stage and act like you are…. then you WILL be in your glow stage even if people think you are ugly… fuck that shit… just be yourself and you will always be in your glow stage.

8. everybody’s different. everybody’s got a different combination. i’ve known people who stayed the same (in a good way) from 9-12 grade. i’ve known people who looked worse in their early years of highschool and looked better in their later (that includes me.) and vice versa. a lot of “glowing up” has to do with what you do. had i not focus on myself a little bit better i think i would have stayed ugly my whole 4 years.

9. Okay. You need to log off of the internet for a while. Don’t worry about your, “glow up” or when you’ll be at your “ugliest.” Be you. Be true to who you are at all times. Not everyone is attractive to everyone. Don’t put so much stock in your looks. Just live

10. as a dude it doesnt matter if youre ugly and if you work towards being “a high value man” (damn i hate that phrase). However it is true, men are not judge on their looks. We are judged on who we are and how we present ourselves.

11. At 15 your body and face will be well proportioned but you will have spots.

    Your skin then clears up at around 18.

    Between 19-25 you look young and vibrant.

    26-32 is your peak.

    32-55 you look decent.

    55+ it turns to shit

12. I’m 17 and I’m still fucking awkward