Hi! I’m not sure if this is right place for such things that I have on my mind. I read a lot of posts recently about advices on dating girls or approaching them but internet vs reality is a whole different thing.
There is a nice girl at the gym (she is working there as personal trainer) so she is basically at her workplace. She is very kid and always smiles. I like her and I think she is very sweet and I would like to learn to know her better. I have spoken with her already few times, sometimes she asked me how my training went and another time I just went to her and asked how she is doing. So we “know each other” but not on such advanced level.
I would like to invite her for coffee or some activity (not directly on a date) but I’m afraid of being rejected and her reaction. And sometimes I feel she is a higher league than me… I always smile towards her when she is looking and she is smiling back. It’s difficult for me to judge, but I had thoughts that she is so for every one as she is working there. So my questions to you internet is it worth a go go all in and just ask her straight forward? Or it will be wired maybe even overwhelming? I’m normal looking guy, of course not perfect but I’m just regular stable man. Please don’t hate or something, just wanted to share this and read your thoughts 😄
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This is her job. She’s paid to be helpful, polite, nice and knowledgeable. Having people from work approach her to do something outside work is probably common, and bothersome.
You can still do it, of course, but your odds of her saying yes are low. And then in the future all your interactions will be awkward.