so i had a big falling out with a friend years ago. I recently wrote her a letter expressing my responsibility in the conflict, apologizing and telling her how much she meant to me in those years, and asking her if she wanted to try to rekindle our friendship. She did not, wished me well, and that was the end of that. I unblocked her on all social media but did not follow her again.

Her profile would sometimes show up on my recommended insta profiles to follow, and a few times I watched her stories (was just curious) but didn’t follow out of fear that she would be uncomfortable.

Anyways, there was a conference in my town and I noticed around that time she privated her profile and unprivated it after the conference. I feel like she noticed me watching her story and didn’t want me to run into her at the conference because although she wishes me well, she doesn’t want anything to do with me.

I really was not trying to creep on her but I feel like I’ve done that accidentally and that the privating thing was about me. It doesn’t really matter but I feel like I overstepped my bounds with her. I’m gonna leave her profile alone but I honestly thought we were chill and she kept her profile public for anyone to view, and that she would have blocked me if she was uncomfortable. Not sure what to make of this, but sad that I have come off as a creeper. What do yall think

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