I am in a relationship with someone and things are not great. They are literally not there at all in the relationship. It could be possible the relationship was there at some time though at this time it appears they really are not present in any capacity. I have no idea what it is we are doing. I have a single track mind and at the end of the day will have the relationship I am looking for. There is no question about this. I just don’t know if they are trying to slow me down or if they are somewhere else. It almost appears they just want to inflict harm on an unsuspecting individual. I never asked for them to have something like this though I know if they keep asking for the relationship then it is only going to get worse. There is nothing positive in this relationship. I don’t know if there is anything I am supposed to be thinking about either or if they are just going with it. I have no idea why they would go with it either. I’m just not able to put this together. I don’t want to leave them at this point. I am very mentally busy though I don’t want to just abandon them like this though if they don’t figure out what the relationship is or where they are supposed to be I am going to be very put off quickly. I need them to focus and not make any mistakes though it appears they are not able to do this. I just need them to try harder, right now it is obvious they do not give the relationship any of their own time or energy and it does hurt to see them like this.
Any ideas or advice is appreciated, thank you.