Today I was shopping with my boyfriend in a mall and in there is this shop where u can buy merch for Harry Potter, Lotr etc. I was thinking that maybe I could work part time there, next to university, which I’ll attend in October and could make some money in addition.
But i kinda panicked and disagreed so I don’t have to talk with the employees. My boyfriend tried talking me into, but i felt like I could not talk to people in that specific moment. At least not when he’s nearby.
I guess if I went alone or he wasn’t somewhere near surround me, I could‘ve asked.
Somebody else has that problem?
I think maybe it’s cause I don’t wanna be “embarrassed“ in front of my bf or something like that.
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I have that too sometimes. But for me it’s mostly more of a source of motivation to do it, because the moment there’s a problem, I have someone who can help me out.
But of course I can understand your train of thought if it could be embarrassing for you if something embarrassing happened.
Basically i would say it wouldn’t happen to me because my girlfriend/boyfriend wouldn’t show it clearly if it could hurt me in any way.
But of course it is normal if you would rather do something like this alone.
Maybe tell your friend about it and next time he can go somewhere else and just wait for you.