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I’m recovering from being what a lot of men suffer from. Porn addicted. I had sex again recently and I came to the conclusion that either something is wrong with me.. or sex is not what it seems in terms of it being portrayed in movies, porn, tv, etc. growing up I always thought it would be some crazy feeling. But it’s just not. As a man you just feel the temp, the walls, and the wetness. I always imagined it be more. A sensation strong enough to make you cum easily. But really when having sex it’s just a game of how into it are you that judges if you’ll cum or not. My pen is glands are fine too. Sex just isn’t what it’s cracked up to be. I want to know what you guys think about my statement.
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Cut out porn, release your death grip and maybe try to find someone who you actually like rather than just women to have sex with.
If you are emotionally detached from your partner, then all you may feel are the physical things as you described.
Yeh I went through a period of feeling that sex was meh. Turns out I was just in denial about how serious my death grip and porn dependence had become. Once I took that seriously and dealt with it, the sensations changed completely. All the most thrilling eroticism and intense orgasms I have had have been with a partner since getting my head on straight.
Disclaimer: I’ve only had two sexual partners. I was very infatuated with each of them when it became a sexual relationship.
If I understand its meaning, I think I’m probably demisexual? I don’t know if I could enjoy sex with someone I didn’t feel some emotional connection to? I’ve had offers, but declined because I couldn’t make it all work in both heads.
Possibly that’s you too?
I’m a female but from my experience these issues tend to improve a lot the more sex you have. This has been a couple of my partners at the start too, but they all changed after a while. Seems normal!
couldn’t disagree more. Sex with my wife is one of the most special experiences i’ll ever have.
It sounds like you’re missing the major component of sex which is lust, desire, enjoying the other person. Dildos can do what a penis does but most women prefer being with an actual man instead because sex is more than just the physical penetration feeling. It’s also the kissing, touching, talking, and other aspects that make sex enjoyable beyond just the penetration part.
Idk man I think sex is pretty awesome