Most people I say this too, roll their eyes like I’m saying something ludicrous. I’m 27, and I was in an abusive relationship for the last 5.5 years. And I really thought that was going to lead to marriage and kids. That’s all I want, I’m old fashioned I want to be house a wife who looks after her husband, and tends to the children, maybe even homeschool them. Just a simple quiet life not filled with money but filled with love and companionship and passion.
I’m watching all my friends and seeing people I went to school with married and having babies and I haven’t even had sex in 4 years.
I don’t want to have sex until marriage (I’m not a virgin) I’m just not interested in being that intimate with someone until marriage. I feel like I’ll never find anyone. And I’m getting older and older. I feel like I don’t exist to men. And the minute I say no sex…I pretty much don’t exist at all.
I fell for this guy but he doesn’t seem to have any interest in me…and it seems even our friendship is drawing to a close.
Am i past my prime now? I just feel desperate and sad.
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I just got married this year (35f), and my husband is the only man I’ve ever dated that never, ever pressured me into getting physical at all. You’ve got plenty of time for all your dreams to come true. What you seek is seeking you.
Still young and shouldn’t panic, it’s just that the no sex before marriage ideal is a hard sell these days,