Last night my bf and I were able to have sex at his house and this time he got hard, put on a condom and enter me without coming right away. But when he tried to hump me his penis kept slipping out. He was on top of me and it was kinda awkward. It felt good to do it but then he’d slip out. A few times he got close to my butt and I had to squeeze my butt together.
He started laughing about it. I tried to be supportive and I wanted him inside me. Then he came again before I even got close to orgasm. Frustrating!
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It sounds like either he’s not completely hard or his penis is slightly short.
If it is the length thing, you might find it better to do other positions such as you on top, or doggy style. These positions often naturally offer deeper penetration, so for less-endowed lovers it can usually stop the penis slipping out.
The slipping out may be due to lack of experience as well as size. Him coming before you, this will happen more often than not. Highly recommend giving yourself a “helping hand” if you want to be able to consistently orgasm.
Don’t be too frustrated. It’s just inexperience. With time and practice he will get better and you can help too.
Maybe try to put a pillow under under your ass so the angle is more suitable for him. Try different positions. The fun is in experimenting and experience. With time you both will learn about what makes you feel good and what doesn’t work.
Him slipping out is a matter of thrusting too far out and the angle at which he penetrates you.
Cumming too soon is probably nerves and excitement and pleasure at the same time. With time that too will normalise. Good luck, have fun!
I think you should try a different position
He might just be nervous too, if the problem is he is not fully erect
Help him out with your mouth first
1st: sex doesn’t stop because he came! You should be getting to orgasm. Even if he’s tired, he should at least kiss/fondle you as you finish yourself off. He should also give you an orgasm before PIV if you want.
Once inside, have him try rocking his hips side to side AND in circle motion instead of thrusting. Slipping out happens, even with new partners.
I kept pushing hubby out when I was close to orgasm. Now he goes balls deep every time he feels that and during my orgasm/s.