I’ve been told they’re turned on by virgins because of the thought of being their first turns them on. How common is this, or is it even a thing?

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  1. Took my husband’s virginity and while that was super special for me, I’ve never sought it out.

    I’m sure it exists, but common? Based on the limited evidence I’ve seen, no.

  2. It’s a thing. I know a few guys who are obsessed with the idea of taking a woman’s virginity. I personally don’t get it. My guess is that it’s not uncommon but I doubt the majority of men care

  3. Not for me. I do have experience in taking virginities and it was an emotionally draining experiences back in the day. I will never understand people that get off on it, it just tells me that they either do not have experience with it or have no empathy for the girl who is going through it.

    Don’t get me wrong it’s nice to be trusted enough to go through together, but give me a girl that knows what she wants, knows what she is doing and is not in bits afraid of the pain and needing reassurance every step of the way, any day.

  4. The guy I lost my virginity too was like that and let me tell you it was like a trophy thing! He never checked in with me was really rough and then got annoyed at me:/

    He diefitely just did it cause he wanted to be the first not cause he cared about me or the sex or my comfort let alone pleasure

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