Great first date, second date planned but not sure if I should double text as I \[26m\] killed the convo with her\[21f\]
I \[26m\] met this girl \[21f\] on Hinge and we hit it off immediately. Our first date was from 7pm-3am. We had dinner and went bar hopping. We held hands, sang together, kissed, and I carried her for parts of the night through the park. Honestly, it felt like a scene out of a movie.
Towards the end of the night, she was trying to drink in parity with me and got a little too drunk. I took care of her while she puked and got an uber back to mine where I made sure she got hydrated and food. I did not intend to have any sexual relations with her that night as I am really trying to know this girl and she was drunk. She had also mentioned that she was a demisexual and it takes a while for there to be sexual attractions. However, with that said, the next morning, she sobered up and we were cuddling and she wanted to have sex anyway. I told her no because once again it wasn’t my intention and she was respectful of it. We did other things but just didn’t have sex..
All the tell tale signs of a developing potential relationship seem to be there. She opened up about how much chemistry we have/ grateful that I handled the situation well and how I took care of her.
I just don’t know how to proceed next as I left the conversation on a dead end but we did agree to meet again on Friday.. should I just double text and give her the time and location?
Last convo:
**Her**: I’m appreciative of how you took care of me when I was fucked cause I’ve had more than enough dangerous experiences involving drinking 😅 that’s why I was embarrassed and crying while still tipsy. You handled it very well though and I respect and am grateful for that
**Me**: Ohhh lol it happens !! I dont even think about that night as an inconvenience, we were out together, so ill make sure you are taken care of. You don’t even wanna know how many times I passed out lmao In school, they gave me the nickname Squirtle bc I puked all the alcohol out at someone’s house
**Her**: LMFAOOO SQUIRTLE BAHAHAHHA Yo I love that Lmaoo Thanks for sharing with me ☺️
**Me**: (: I have puked in a minute though lol, I hope I don’t have to any time soon … lol you gonna get my ass home if we out together!
**Her**: Yessir! As long as you are coherent enough to tell me your crib you get home!
**Me**: Alright that plan sounds good 👌🏻
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Why are people so concerned about double texting? Especially in this case where you seemed to have a good conversation going. I dont see how you killed the conversation either, you just finished the current one, and either of you can start another one. If you really want to see her again just text her to make plans, it’s not that complicated lol. And if she were to be turned off by a double text, especially in this specific context, that would just speak to how immature she is.