Not shaming anyone with the kink to each their own it just goes against what i want in my life. In short hotwifing was never really my thing until i got cheated on and had sex with her immediately after ever since it started turning me on but its not a lifestyle id ever wanna lead im jealous by nature and irl it would not go well since when i end up finishing i feel disgusted with it. My question is how do i rewire my brain the thought keep popping in my head and giving me a boner even tho i dont want it to i wish i could stop my brain from thinking bout it but for some reason i cant? does anyone have any advice ?
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Having it as a kink or fantasy doesn’t mean you have to act on it of share it with others. Just go with it in your head
Thats, hard to stop those thoughts, popping into your head,you’ve made a start,in thinking your thoughts need realigning.Normal advice from me,get a hobby,don’t watch porn,eat healthily,meditate,you get the idea good luck buddy
only thing you can do now is push it down honestly
its a lifestyle you’re absolutely not interested in so the best course of actual would be to avoid it entirely. might be hard at first but youll cope in years to come
whenever it pops up, denounce it as bad
your brain will adapt
Not watching related porn can help (but, in other cases, can be a helpful outlet). And you don’t have to act on these kinks. Or you can try roleplaying them or something. But straight up repressing/not accepting them tends to be psychologically damaging.