The friend group I sorta grew up with always exclude me out of everything. Recently I asked one of the friends to add me into this one group chat they had, and right as I was in they say “you always asked to be included” and shit like that. I just left. Honestly man, cannot live my life anymore. I can’t have true friends to hangout with, no girl wants me, no one cares about me, and honestly I might just kill myself. I’m tired of suffering from loneliness and isolation. I’m just ugly, stupid, and uninteresting.
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Maybe you are just going through a transition phase/Growing phase. There are so many other people in the world who will love you. I’m in the same boat feeling lonely or like I can’t make many friends. it gets to me too trust me. Don’t give up. We got this.
I understand how you feel. Just know that plenty of us share your pain. Sorry you have to go through this, but I hope things get better for you.
Everybody is like that . They just create an image and you don’t.
All you need is one magic trick ! “ Smile” ! Don’t expect anything from people ! Give love and compassion to everyone around you ! Be a good person ! Don’t forget to tell everyone how virtues you are ! It’s the essence of life !
Damn man thats tough but dont make urself feel like that bro u will Find right people in right time. Maybe God has something planned with you just stay patient and work on urself. Best of luck to you👋🏽
two of the best people i have known in my life, for some reason, have had terrible people around them. More than a few times Im sure Ive been the only person they speak to openly about how they are really feeling. there is nothing wrong with them, they are great people, they just happened to be around people who were terrible to them and they made them feel like they were terrible. I could offer my support and love but im not convinved a single person makes up for all that theywent through, but I could help a little. These days they are both doing better. They just found better people. one of the friends i mentioned was suicidal, its still not completely fixed for them, but it gets better, and when we talk I see they are more reassured and confident of themsselves and less critical of themself. I see on their insta they have way more friends these days and it makes me happy. sometimes you are just unlucky with the people around you. I dont know myself how you search out new friends like that so i cant advise on exactly what steps to take to find them (aside form the standard ‘try different clubs, local groups and societies..’) i think sometimes it just happens, but in my opinion you are in one of these slumps. imo there are better people out there than how the ones are treating you right now. that text you mentioned was a horrible thing to say and just braindead, cause everyone asks to be included, or no one would have any friends. and if no one in the group called them out it sounds like you happen to be around people with terrible mindsets and attitudes. im sure there are better people around you, if not right here right now maybe somehwere else a little from now. please hold on. From what I’ve seen, it gets better. It might take time and more searching