So last week my gf and I were good..well now I guess ex but I am not sure..and then Saturday after the fact of meeting her son on the Tues, wed was good she finally said some comments got to her. He has been hurt by his Dad and the ex after that so now that him and I hit it off so well she got scared a bit. She said I know you won’t leave us (him and her) and your intentions are good it just got too intense too fast. She said I trust you and to look after him (she had class so I helped) we didn’t get romantic at all in person and he said too now you can live with us. That scared her I think. She did hold my hand under the table quickly so that made me feel better about how things were going when I first met him.
So now after Sat I didn’t hear anything from her till I called her Tues. She said why didn’t you call sooner..in my head I thought you could’ve too but not in a bad ask just curiously. So we talked it out and agreed to be friends for now. but she said I want to hang in person too. just have to talk to him about boundaries. So we had a good chat. Then I let her be and Thurs I sent a voice note saying i appreciated the chat on Tues and wondered our boundaries. I know you have to talk to him still but let me know when you feel ready. She fired a text back a bit later and said I don’t know of any boundaries for now, I need to talk to him so we can hang with a smiley face. Then since she got her hair dyed I had said I liked it she she said now you can see it in person. I hope your opinion doesn’t change. with a smiley face again.
she also said, since I always had her fav chocolate in the fridge, i miss having chocolate in the fridge.
which then I said I did get you one, this was before things changed a bit, and I told her she got excited and I had ordered her a mug which she knew and it arrived from her fav show and I told her.
So now I am confused.
I asked, didn’t get a boundary answer but are we still sorta working things out ? or not?