I joined Facebook dating after a toxic relationship. I matched with a man, we’ll name him Koy. Koy and I connected immediately and asked for my Snapchat, so I gave it to him. We began snapchatting, inconsistently. All of a sudden, we’re snapchatting throughout the day after being friends on it for only a few days. I fall hard for Koy. Koy asks me out on a date. He hasn’t been on a date since years, reports to be very anxious. We go on the date and connect so well, 10x better than I thought we would have. We went on a second date, exceeded my expectations (and the feeling was mutual). A few days after our second date, Koy began to distance himself a bit. He ended up telling me that he has issues with commitment and is unable to go on another date with me (even though he wants to). He asks if I would be ok being friends and maybe seeing if something happens in the future. I’m heartbroken. What do I do 😭
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You’re dating. Being friends with him will take away from that time.
Don’t believe his bs. He’s married.
Take your time, date some other guys
when he began to distance himself a little bit did you give him some space or did you send him lots of messages wanting to talk about it? sometimes girls can go overboard and want to talk about emotions too much from the guys perspective. imo its best to let things cool down for a week without bringing it up and then just ask if he like low key wants to get some tandoori chicken and just be calm and dont bring this up again for awhile. if he doesnt come around than it just didnt work out and move on. somwtimes things can burn fast and go out fast.