Long story short when I first had his kid she was unaware he was seeing me. I moved on and had a new boyfriend and then that didn’t work. Somehow he weaseled his way back into my life easily because I still cared about him. Fast forward to now he basically had some idea of us all living together. He told her about it and she was mad obviously. He said he loved us both. It will never happen she hates me even tho we never met and it’s been almost 5 years. I would never want to live w her because she calls me a B***** and just blames me instead of him and probably wants to harm me based on some messages I got once
I basically told him I’m done because he’s not involved enough for me to feel cared for. He even told me he wanted to have another kid w me. I’m just like why you barely see us as is?
He wanted to go to an event w the kids and wanted me to come too and she was mad about him suggesting he wants me there. He wanted to know why we hate each other 😂 Anyways I was tired of being left out of things so I’m seeing my way out. He was mad and said f the both of us. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️idk what to do at this point I’m just looking for other ppl to date because I’m just tired of feeling like this.
Idk who to vent too cuz it sounds too f%?!ing nuts. I know I’m gonna be judged but I’m just here for any feedback.
Tl;dr Child’s dad wants me and other baby mom to get along and we never will and Everyone is basically upset
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So when he weaseled his way back in he was still with his partner and then did you guys continue on a relationship while knowing that?
This isn’t polyamory, this is him cheating on his main woman and you being a long term side chick.
Polyamory requires consent from all involved and it doesn’t sound like that’s what’s going on here.
This guy is manipulative, selfish, and a narcissist. Learn your lesson and move on. You’re worth so much more than this piece of trash
This isn’t polyamoury, he cheated on his partner with you. That’s why she doesn’t want you around. I’d have as little to do with them both as possible if I were you.