I like giving bjs because it feels so intimate and I like giving pleasure to my partner, but I have a terrible gag reflex and it takes the enjoyment out of it for me. I’m seeing a new man and he is well endowed, so I’m having a hard time with gagging when I go down on him. Has anyone had experience using throat numbing spray to reduce/eliminate gagging for when I go down on him? Or maybe just tips to help with my gag reflex. Thank you!
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I have no experience with sprays but with my partner’s, they usually get better at it over time as their reflex becomes less sensitive.
I heard a good silicone based lube like Exxtreme Glide Silicone, Pjur Backdoor, Uberlube… helps the experience and the gag reflex.
In the Shameless Sex podcast, they love it!
Squeezing your left thumb inside your left palm is supposed to reduce your gag reflex. Your mileage may vary, but worth a shot.
It works, with a few caveats.
1. Don’t get any of the numbing stuff on the cock!!! Kind of undoes the whole point. So make sure you’re numbed and well rinsed before getting busy.
2. Be careful to avoid injury, you can end up pretty sore and bruised if you don’t have pain as a warning signal to slow down.
Other than that, have fun!