I really love him. I build a family with him. But for the last two years the sex has become less and less attractive to me. This last year I have maybe 3 times a month sex and barely ever get off. I really don’t know why. I get aroused very easily, sometimes I write him horny messages while he is at work and I often engage. We start, I get faster and my breaths are regular and more heavy and… suddenly my sensation stops. Like waking up slowly. He is still fast and will try his best and for sure mostly gets off. Just not me anymore. Same with toy’s. I get in the mood, grab one, get very aroused and breathe heavily and it will soon wear off. It’s so sad.
Any advice for me?
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Get your hormones check from a doctor, see if anything is amiss.
I think there’s something more going behind the scenes. Your narrative makes it sound like you married him because of stability, marriage material almost like a safe best option. It makes me wonder if you ever saw him as a sexual partner? I think you just don’t find him attractive enough.
Sounds like me after SSRIs you gotta bring this to a doctor.
Have you been taking any medication? Antidepressants can sometimes make you feel like this :s
I would recommend to try and use a magic wand vibrator during intercourse.. help my other half get off every time . Also does your other half give you lots of foreplay? Massage? Oral? Rimming etc? Hope it helps and good luck