We matched on tinder. I’m f27 he’s m34. First time we met up for a 3hrs coffee date, 2nd time we met at my place for video games and he ended up staying for 6 hrs and the 3rd time we met up for food and drinks and then talked for hours at a bar.
The thing is there’s no action from his side(or mine, I know it’s 2022 and a girl can take initiative). He complimented my looks and I would say there’s tension, a lot of eye contact and smiling. He said it feels like we known each other for longer then we have because he feels I’m easy to talk to and be around. I feel the same way.
As the headline said I want to kiss him but don’t know how! Think we will hang at his place tomorrow. I think he likes me because he asked if we should do something tomorrow and on Saturday so that’s the plan.
Back to the subject: I’m waaay to shy to just lean in and hope he kisses me. Left a long relationship recently and have honestly forgot how to do this thing 🤣
Should I ask if I can kiss him? Or say I’ve been thinking of kissing him?
Help is very needed!!! Do your thing Reddit 🤞🙌
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When you have eye contact next, just lean in a bit and slowly close your eyes while looking at him. He’ll do the rest.
Thank me later.
Yikes, ok…how about this, show him something you’re holding, preferably something small so he has to get close…heads close together…turn toward one another commence lip wrestling. Be brave! That’s where the thrill is, that electric space between that pulls you together. Good Luck 🙂
Give him eye contact then look down at his lips then back up to his eyes. Thats a pretty obvious go signal for me. Or if hes oblivious just say ‘Dude you gonna make a move or what?’