I’m living far away frome my hometown and I only go home occasionally.
Everyone knows that during this academic year I won’t be able to go anywhere till christmas. I’m leaving today and yesterday I met with two of my friends. One of them is my closest friend (the one that initiated all of this talk) even tho we had some fights.
Immediately when the other friend got on the car, the first one started talking about their plans for the next few days. Then she told her that she has 2 tickets for a concert and asked only her if she wanna go. AND THEN they were still talking about throwing a party at one of them’s apartment. Or about possibility of visiting her every weekend.
I felt extremely awkward. I didn’t know what to say. They didn’t even asked me if I wanna join – it was obvious that I won’t but still I felt weird because of that. I don’t blame the second friend, she was just responding.
Was it rude to talk like that in front of me for so long? Or am I just sensitive? Literally I felt like the one starting this talk wanted to brag how much fun they will have without me. Kinda punishing me for not willing to go back to my hometown? (I mean I would be able to visit every weekend but I cannot study at my house at all and I care a lot about this major) Cause they could’ve just talk about it later. And she was also reminding my other friend about plans that they already made. Like I’m sure she knows you go to her house tomorrow?
I’m not sad because they have fun without me. I felt awkward not knowing what to do with myself in this situation.
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Hi. Maybe start writing in short paragraphs. Also edit more
Seems like a normal convo that you were not included with respect to your choices. Might be more akward to keep asking you to events that Hou won’t be able to go to and them feel rejected to say no.
Seems natural to the circumstances. You can add in to the convo even if you don’t go. She might be talking a lot due to excitment