I (22m) and her (22f) have been talking on and off. We both have busy schedules with work and intense majors so it’s been hard to find time to meet each other. On the second date we had real chemistry and slept together. 1st and second date we’re about a month apart due to me just not having the time and energy to date.
The sex was good I felt. Even if the sex wasn’t perfect for her (to be fair I was exhausted and she knew it) we still had chemistry and understanding I feel. She invited me over after the date for sex. Afterwards, she texted me about a clarification about a science conversation we were having and she was going in on it so I thought, okay she’s just making sure I’m not gonna ghost her and we’re good if that’s happened in the past with a manipulative guy.
On Wednesday, two days after we slept together, I asked her if she was free and she said probably not and that she was going home for the weekend. What strikes me about this though is that she didn’t offer to say another time.
Did she just not like the sex or does she just need space? She is pleasant to be around and doesn’t harass and annoy me in general, but typically after sleeping with a girl I get more attention, not less. If I’m being real, I’m quite busy and do need space but I really liked her presence and sex in general so I don’t want to lose her for the future and wanted to show I cared, so I asked her availability again.
What should I do next? I think I’m just gonna leave it alone and maybe try one more time a week or two away from now, and if she doesn’t offer a “maybe another time?”. I’ll just move on.