I feel so childish asking this but I noticed a thing that really bothered me.
My current girlfriend was in a Tinder phase a couple of months before she met me, I’m all good with that, her past is not my concern but I noticed that she follows and likes every photo of the dudes she hooked up with at that time and although I didn’t expect it to bother me it does.
I know I should probably just ask her but if feels so childish and immature that I think it will do more bad than good.
Would you be bothered if you saw your girlfriend/boyfriend do this or am I just an idiot?
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This would bother me. I highly doubt she’d be okay with it if the roles were reversed here.
Yeah, it would bother me. First, tell her how it’s making you feel, acknowledge that you don’t think she’s doing anything wrong or suspect, but you’d like her to stop cause it’s making you uncomfortable.
I think it’s normal for it to bother you and you should have a conversation with her about it. It might be nothing to worry about, maybe these were one time things who she wasn’t really attracted to but she ended up staying friends with, or even just didn’t unfollow on socials? If that’s the case tho I think it’s strange that she bothered to tell you they were hook ups and not just old friends, it’s hardly something you want to advertise to your new partner.
But also if that’s true then she’ll probably feel bad that it’s made you feel bad and unfollow them 🤷♀️ if she gets all defensive and weird about it then ye, I think you have a problem.
Either way definitely a conversation worth having.
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