A lot of us right now are experiencing the toxicity of dating. It’s basically collect and select and there are a lot of people that date just to mess around and who’s not ready to commit. While it is true that a lot of people can just sleep around with other people and act as if they’re in a relationship without putting on the label, the problem is almost everybody pretend that they are someone like this because being inlove makes you fragile and it’s seen as being weak when in reality they are someone who seeks deep connection, or someone who wants to feel being loved and secured. So ask yourself if you’re in a situationship if who you really are and what are you looking for, because you’re just putting yourself in a difficult position and end up hurting your heart.
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I stopped taking people on actual dates a long time ago, it works wonders.