Arguably a good thing, I can last hoursss of marathon sex (currently my longest is 3 1/2 hours, but it was my partner (21 / non binary) who wanted to stop that session)
They like it when I masturbate afterwards and cum on them, but I would still like to experience what it would be like to cum while I am still inside them. We always use condoms so there is very little risk of pregnancy. Does anyone have any advice on how I could potentially cum easier/faster?
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Uh wait.. the pronouns are confusing me. Let’s start with who is what; and I apologize. You still have the biological parts for a male, and your non-binary partner still has the ability to get pregnant or biological female parts?
I assume if you were snipped or post-op that this wouldn’t be a problem, and I also assume you are regular sexual partners so the risk of STD’s is low?
I would learn a good pull-out game or go anal, honestly. Condoms always make me take a lot longer to cum. Other than increasing sensitivity to the act by going condom-less, I’d try to increase sensitivity by not cumming for a while.
I have this story about how it took me less than a minute after basic training because I didn’t touch myself for several weeks….
Some ideas worth trying:
1. A different type or size of condom. A good fit and the right material can make a huge difference when it comes to condoms, but preferences vary wildly from person to person, so you’ll probably have to experiment.
2. A change in masturbation habits. Some people are used to squeezing very tightly to get off, which is difficult to replicate during PIV. Abstaining for a while, deliberately using a lighter touch, using a fleshlight instead of your hand, or any combination of the above can bring back sensitivity over time.
3. Different positions, ideally something that provides both a tight fit and a stimulating angle. Varies from person to person, but some popular ones would be spooning, prone position or the wheelbarrow (the penetrating partner stands or kneels in front of the receiving partner, who lies on their back, their weight resting on their shoulders, pelvis lifted off of the bed; requires a bit of strength or a big pillow, but is very effective).
4. Adding a different kind of stimulation, like a butt plug or vibrator, or just some finger action.
Good luck to y’all!
have you considered using female condoms (worn internally in the vagina) or them going on birth control? Condoms can make it hard to finish if you have a sensitivity problem or if you are on hormones.