Sorry for subpar English.
I used to be a loner and a pretty big one. Previously crippled by anxiety and apathy caused by bullying at school, now I have managed to overcome my problems to some extent and make some friends at my second school and university. For the last months I’ve somewhat connected to a group of people in my class. At least I presume so, as they gave a present, invited me to parties several times and we opened up about pretty dark things about each other etc.
The thing that bothers me is that they have a group chat I am aware of. They even told me stories that happened that happened there but they haven’t invited me there still. What does it mean? I’ve shown that I wanted to talk to them but at this point I am not sure now. If that was an elaborate prank of which I though at first it is a stupid one. Could it be that they think that I don’t want to be inviyed? Help me understand, please.
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I used to work on a production line at a car factory. Everyone was pretty nice to me and invited me to stuff regularly, but they also had a private chat I was aware of and never invited to. It never bothered me though and I never asked about it. I think giving people their space is always beneficial. And being ok with not being invited is part of what makes a person confident, in turn, I feel like that confidence is what makes people likeable. So, be ok with not being invited and continue making friends and being friendly and I’m sure they’ll invite you eventually or maybe not. Just be happy no matter what.