Some days ago I (22M) came across to the post in the FAQ about [how to have multiple orgasms for men](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/16i64x/the_multiple_orgasm_guide_for_men). After reading it I realised that it was something I tried in the past but never worked for me, so I decided to try again, and the same thing is happening.
I can reach a point near ejaculation where I can stop it by squeezing the muscles, I don’t really have an orgasm but I feel something. The thing is that when I start masturbating again after that I quickly reach that point again, it takes me like 10 seconds, so I’m not able to achieve what the post says (taking 10/20 min to reach the point again) by doing the same, anyone facing the issue or any advice? I don’t last long in bed and I would like to achieve this.
Thanks!
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It takes a long time to build up strength in your pelvic floor muscles so maybe you are not giving yourself enough time to get stronger.
What has worked for me is this:
Cum normally. After cumming, but before it goes soft, flex them kegels, hard and repeatedly. Breathe. Continue thrusting *slowly*. Keep doing kegels.
Usually my dick loses a little stiffness during this process, but eventually (a minute or two) it stiffens back up and that post-nut feeling fades. At that point it’s go time for round 2