Hi, I’m a female and I almost always have tears running down my face during or before orgasm. Is it normal? I’m not actually crying because I don’t feel sad or anything, my eyes just fill up with tears.

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  1. Iā€™m like this too! My first boyfriend was scared he hurt me or something but I was just so overwhelmed (in a good way) I couldnā€™t control my eyes watering like that. When you hook up with people do you give a little disclaimer that your eyes water, but youā€™re not crying?

  2. Anyone elseā€™s eyes water reading this or just mine? I can tear up from masturbation but Iā€™ve yet to find a man to give me that feeling

  3. crying and sweating are ways for the body to release processed chemicals. Perfectly normal. (I find I only do this when I’m suuuuper relaxed.)

  4. Just cz you’re not sad, doesn’t mean you aren’t crying. They could just be tears of pure bliss and joy, just pure ecstasy that sends such intense emotions that you tear up a bit. I imagine its a completely normal thing.

  5. Itā€™s fairly common, itā€™s because your brain is being flooded with lots of ā€œfeel-good juiceā€ and your body responds in various ways- for you it is tears!

    Itā€™s not the same but sometimes after a particularly intense session I will be completely overcome with emotion- laughing and crying (usually simultaneously), and the need to hug something /be hugged. I completely lose my mind for about 5-10 minutes. Freaked my partner right out the first time it happened, now it just strokes his ego šŸ˜‚

  6. Imo the world “normal” is almost always unhelpful.

    Every single person is different and unique, this is how you roll, that’s fine.

    If you meet a dacryphiliac they will love it haha.

  7. Fun fact! Tears are just your bodyā€™s neurological floodgates! When you have too much of any neurotransmitters, you cry to get rid of them! Tears have different chemical compositions depending on the transmitter triggering it. So very normal! You probably had a very high level of positive hormones and your brain decided to dump some of it through tears!

  8. Sometimes its hormonal. Intercourse releases more dopamine and other hormones. If it makes you or your partner uncomfortable then consider talking to your gynecologist but I think its pretty normal.

  9. I ā€œknewā€ a girl that did the same. She was also multiply orgasmicā€¦.cried a lot. I think that youā€™re fine.

  10. Perfectly normal darling, when I have a difficult day and my boyfriend fucks me hard and delicious, I shed tears of joy and satisfaction. There is nothing like a good cum and release everything we have inside, free ourselves.

  11. Guy here. I often end up with tears in my eyes during orgasm. Perfectly normal šŸ™‚šŸ‘šŸ¼

  12. Girlllll I have a full on meltdown. Sometimes Iā€™ll turn around I have my mascara running down my face lol.

  13. This happens to me sometimes when the orgasm is super intense. I’ve definitely freaked some partners out though.

  14. Same happens to me when I give a BJ sometimes! My eyes automatically well up and I get self-conscious thinking ā€œoh no, this dude must think Iā€™m crying!ā€ My nose gets stuffy too so I feel like I need a tissue right after Iā€™m done giving a BJ. Any advice on this is welcome.

  15. I do too. I also cry like a lil bitch if i get a very strong orgasm. Thats how u know its goooood.

  16. I had a full blown hysterical panic attack during one of the most intense orgasms I ever had. Zero reason for it. I wasnā€™t scared, mad, emotional, triggered, or anything. We were trying something new and holy fuck did I see the light.

    But let me tell you that I would 100/10 not repeat it. Having that strong of a physical reaction was not pleasant to come down from.

    Anyway, orgasms can affect the body in different ways. Sometimes my eye brows twitch and I end up with a headache when I orgasm.

  17. I’ve cried after orgasms lol. It always happens when the mood is too romantic, like there’s music and everything. I was very much in love and couldn’t believe how lucky I was in that moment, was extremely overwhelmed (in the best possible way). And I fully sobbed for like 5 minutes after XD

  18. Cried after the last pop at the chiropractor just tears flowed. It wasnā€™t connected to emotion or pain of the pop. It was the release. Itā€™s odd huh, just the release of letting go of old pain.

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