I (21F) have been with my boyfriend (21M) for more than 3 years now. He always said how he never even thinks let alone look at other women because of how much in love with me he is. Like they don’t interest him at all.
But I just went through his following today and saw some female accounts of pretty influencers, who don’t post any kind of content he’s usually interested in (gaming, gadgets, aesthetic videos). Like @zhaosasa, some local influencer girls I’ve never heard him talk about.
I did go through his insta following during the initial days and only found one influencer kinda account which was Lisa from blackpink. So I know these are new additions.
The number isn’t a lot either, 5 or 6 out of 205 following. It’s still really bothering me. Because he said they don’t attract him at all. Why is he following them then? Do I talk to him about it or will it be too much? I don’t know how to feel okay about it. Am I missing something?
I’ll add that no he’s never shown any unfaithful tendency in any way. I just don’t think he actually thinks I’m pretty like he says he does. And that’s understandable because I’m not. His friends also told him that initially and he didn’t say anything back. Though that situation changed now after a huge fight.
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>He always said how he never even thinks let alone look at other women because of how much in love with me he is. Like they don’t interest him at all.
This is a lie. Almost no men will stop finding other women attractive just because they’re in a relationship. It’s weird that lots of women expect them to.
>The number isn’t a lot either, 5 or 6 out of 205 following. It’s still really bothering me. Because he said they don’t attract him at all. Why is he following them then?
Why do you care? Are you afraid he’s going to cheat on you with them or something?
> I just don’t think he actually thinks I’m pretty like he says he does.
Who he follows on IG has nothing to do with this.
Most men just say that to their SO’s to curb jealous thoughts and ease their minds. But its not really that bad, people are attractive, its ok to think someone is attractive when your with someone else, most people do.