Hey everyone, I’m 25 male.
Last night I had a sexual intercourse with a dear friend of mine. We know each other for a couple of years now and we have a very deep loving connection. I always wanted to have a relationship with him but the problem is.. He is straight. And I am clearly not. We have the kind of relationship where we can cuddle for hours, and just genuine love to be around each other. It was all very innocent till last night. We often have a sleepover when he comes over. After talking for hours while laying next to each other he told me that he was curious about my skillset (if you know what i mean). When the moment came that I went down on him he started to shiver, i asked him if he was okay but he told me that he was cold. I put a blanket on him to warm him up but it didn’t really help. It was only when I said that it ‘was all okay’ that he stopped with shivering. That made me realize something.. When I was younger every time I really liked someone I started to shiver as well before the first sexual activity. It eventually stops but it can be quitte annoying.. Does anyone know what that is/ or why it is happening?
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It still happens to me sometimes when I get anxious and excited and overstimulated (even mentally).
He was nervous or excited! I’m 25 and shiver at times when I’m going to have sex soon, especially if it’s with a new partner or on a date where I have a sense it will happen and am already turned on, but I have to wait some time. This sounds overall pretty cute, honestly! You sound like a good friend and attentive partner.
Newsflash: Your friend is not straight.
This happens to me all the time!