Make myself more comfortable being eaten out?

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1. If he loves eating pussy, none of the things you mentioned will matter. It sounds like he can’t wait, and if so, he will probably be disappointing not to be able to do it. If you can get in the right frame of mind to not worry and just enjoy it, that’s what you should do.

2. >Also, I really struggle to cum from penetration, do any women in the same boat find it easier to cum from oral?

   There are a fair amount of women who do orgasm better from oral or woman on top position. They’re both worse for me, so your mileage is going to vary. I know for me both of these make me feel less secure and therefore less likely to build up to or give into an orgasm. I also like a fair bit of pressure on my clit which is best achieved with some hand action during penetration.

3. I’ll agree with the other poster here. Most folks who want to go down on you really do not care about the state of your vagina. It’s more ourself that care than our partners. However if doing things like shaving and eating better is something that’ll make you feel more confident there is nothing wrong with that either. Also I am not sure how much of a difference diet actually makes to taste, I’ve only had one partner tell me otherwise and that was when I was briefly on a full vegetarian diet and for me that wasn’t something I wanted to do long term nor for the fact it tasted better.

   I’d say slap some cold aloe on the kitty and be kind to yourself, and maybe talk to the partner about your fears they might surprise you but ultimately it’s your body.

4. Most men do not care as long as the vagina is clean.

5. I mean tastes vary from woman to woman and even the same woman depending on a myriad of factors, but most of those tastes aren’t going to win any culinary awards. Nor should they. It’s a body part. And people who enjoy eating pussy understand that. Penises, vaginas, buttholes, toes. All things people lick and suck, none of which taste good.

   So don’t worry about your taste. Again, people who enjoy going down on their partners do it because they want to make their partners feel good, not because they’re looking for a tasty snack.

6. I’ve never met a vulva I wasn’t thrilled to go down on. Show him your gift and enjoy the ride! Plenty of women struggle to orgasm from penetration alone, so that’s totally normal. There are plenty of positions where you or your partner can stimulate your clit while fucking. As for flavor, try using monkfruit sweetener in your morning coffee/tea. It’s ketogenic, and it makes pussy taste like skittles!

7. Relax. You are anxious but you really don’t have to be. Going down on girls has always been my biggest turn on and I can assure you that your “bad diet” is nothing to worry about. As long as you have good hygiene then he should be grateful for the opportunity.