I started seeing this guy in another state last year. At first text convos were daily. He didn’t seam like a great text chatter. Then it would take a while to get a reply, honestly I would be guilty of that too.
Anyways, we would see each other every couple months and, while awkward at first, it got much better and I even felt a great connection with him. But texting in between visits was rare, like once a month and the convo would drag on for about two weeks due to only one or two replies a day. I also noticed he tends to forget some of our conversations, so we re-have them.
One time he wanted to see me since he was already visiting my city for work. Told him to lmk, he never did and was tagged in pics in my city during that time.
He breadcrumbs, meaning, drops lines that says he wants a future with me (ie, let’s practice this dance so we have it down for future weddings)
Well, I wasn’t ok with the inconsistency so I tried to end it. He was respectful, basically said that sucks, but he understood and then said he didn’t want to end it, I’m important to him, and he wanted to actually fix the communication issues and see me more often.
To me, actions are louder and I believe in “if he wanted to, he would” but idk if this is all in my head.
I wanted to get some perspective. Feel free to explain if I’m not seeing something. Rare I find someone I really like, but don’t want to follow along a dead end.
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If someone could shed some light on us would be great. I’m on the same boat. I think we know the answer here is like you said if they wanted they would but here we are asking Reddit what we likely already l know 😩