Been casually seeing this guy. He’s cute, we have good conversation, our bodies have great sync and chemistry in bed. He’s a great kisser and really good at 3rd base. BUT he lasts for like a minute, probably lesser. Every. single. time. How do I tell him? Without emasculating him?!
Like Heyy I do love being eaten out, but it’s not anywhere nearly as good as sex.
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Condoms help. I’m a bit of a two minute man myself… Maybe take it as a compliment? Can’t help himself?
Don’t let him move. Make out. Let him move a bit and stop him. Cool him down. Repeat.
Have him beat it beforehand and after 10-20 go for it.
Maybe use his first pop as foreplay?
There are also desensitization sprays men can use too
Let the first time happen and then encourage play again in about 10 minutes (using your hand, mouth or starting to grind on him). Watching porn may help him get going again.
What is 3rd base? Anal? What is 1st and 2nd?
Maybe a ring? That can help delay things a bit
Tell him to clean up, go down on you a while, and then go again. The second time almost always lasts longer. Men don’t always seem to understand that sex doesn’t have to be over the first time a dude cums.
Masturbation, oral before intercourse. Go down on him and while he is, “recharging” have him go down on you.
gift him some numbing gel – word it that he feels so good in you you’d like it to last longer.
Always go a second time right after
Or tell him to fap it out while he eats you out, and only then do PIV
Have him go on Roman and get treatment for PE