We started having sex with gf and it’s mot easy for me to maintain an erection. I can be completely hard as long as we’re in the right position and I’m receiving constant stimulation but if we change positions or just stop a bit it starts to go soft very quickly. In the meanwhile I can still cum so there’s no problem with that it’s just that if it goes softer it’s impossible to get it in so I must get it up again which is hard. All of this is with a condom though.
I’ve never had this problem before. She’s my second partner ever and it’s my first time using condoms. I don’t watch porn and don’t masturbate often and when I do it it’s with a light grip and she on the other hand is not too loose either. This doesn’t happen with petting and foreplay, this only happens after I put the condom on. Is the condom too small? I already use xl and they don’t sell bigger than this in my country as far as I know so it would really suck if I had to order condoms from abroad. Feel free toask questions for more context
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Condoms stretch way bigger than you can believe. I see this comment a lot, almost like men trying to brag about cock size. You can probably wear a regular condom just fine. And if it’s tight, it’s going to act as a cock ring, which is going to make your erection harder, not the contrary. Just my two cents.
Have her play with you through the condom, it’ll still feel really good.
I saw a comment saying the guy should put a little lube on then the condom, I’m going to try that too.