hi, I’m a 26-year-old man and my fiancee is a 23-year-old woman we have been together for almost three years and engaged for one year and we both have our own children from different relationships. my partner is now pregnant for me and is already 4 months pregnant at the beginning of the pregnancy we didn’t have any problems in the relationship and there haven’t been any problems in the bedroom either, but now all of a sudden I don’t even want to touch my partner (I do touch with hugs and kisses at least if my partner asks)
about 2 weeks ago, I suddenly woke up in the morning and the urges were completely gone, and I don’t know why they left, because all I know is that I love her more than anything and I don’t want to lose her ever
I’m afraid to tell my partner about this because I’m afraid she’ll misunderstand and leave me… Does anyone have any advice as to what could be causing this? p.s sorry if the English is bad, this is not my main language but Finnish is
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For one, stop panicking. If this is an incredibly sudden change for you and you don’t know why, I strongly suggest you visit your doctor. It might be the stress of the pregnancy, it might be something unrelated. If your doctor has no answers, try a therapist. If you need to tell your lady anything, if she’s worrying, tell her you’ve not been feeling like yourself lately and just want to make sure everything is okay before the baby comes. You don’t need to go into detail, be honest and tell you don’t know what’s going on or what’s causing it.
Seriously, keep calm and consult professionals before doing anything drastic.