i usually just go really slow, kinda stop and then kiss her for a while, but in porn i see the guys just keep going at it (i know its porn and its all fake but still i have no idea).

what is more pleasurable for a woman ?

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  3. Its depend on the mood or what type of s*x she like rough or slow, just ask there us nothing wrong about it.

  4. Very much depends on the woman. Most, yes, they’ll get oversensitive after an orgasm. But there are some that will want you to keep going straight through it. Slowing down or stopping is a safe bet though. If you’re unsure, just ask the woman you’re wish what her preference is.

  5. Personally I appreciate the little slow down and then I initiate picking up the pace again when I’m ready

  11. Yes keep going unless she says stop!! Women can cum over and over and they only get stronger as you go along!!

  12. I keep going after my wifecuts. She loves it, but will tell me to stop if it gets to sensitive or intense.

  14. It totally depends on the woman.

    Some like you to keep going until they say stop or push you away. Others like to keep going and can have more orgasms. Some just want to stop and be done.

    The bad thing is, there is a fine line. If you stop too soon you will “ruin” their orgasm. If you don’t stop soon enough after it can almost be painful (called orgasm “torture”).

    So, I typically keep going until my wife says/screams stop and/or pushes me away.

  15. it depends on the woman, personally when i cum i get so sensitive in that area that i almost push my bf off me out of pure reflex because it’s overstimulating for him to continue. but my orgasm is completely separate from piv, i only cum from masturbating myself or oral. sometimes he’ll give me oral and then we do piv after, or we’ll start with piv and i finish him off with my hands/mouth and then he gives me oral. i’m not too particular.

  18. If thatā€™s something she wants you to do and is ok with it, yes but NEVER assume ā€œyesā€ is the answer. Always ask beforehand

  19. It’s very much an individual thing. Some women want you to stop because they get overwhelmed and oversensetized. My wife is one of those women. Other women are happy for you to keep going. If you don’t know your partner yet, maybe pause or slow down a beat and read her reactions. Stay connected. Ask her if you aren’t sure.

  20. If you havenā€™t cum yet and she has and you are questioning if you should keep going, maybe you need a new hobby.

  21. ofc like what everyone else is saying talk to your partner. but if youre asking me i love it and totally want it. it feels amazing to be overstimulated after orgasming most of the time it leads me to a second one even if that not the goal:)))

  23. As everyone else has mentioned, ask your partner. As the opinion of a woman, I will make it clear that even if Iā€™m pushing you away after the first orgasm because Iā€™m sensitive, itā€™s a body response but I do not want my partner to stop. Thatā€™s what brings on the multiple orgasm. We usually agree on an actual safe word of sorts, so they would understand if I actually mean for them to stop.

  24. It depends on the woman, so talk to your partner. I’ve had partners who wanted me to stop immediately because they couldn’t handle it, and I’ve had partners who will keep cumming as long as I keep going. And I’ve had partners that can go either way. I like the tap out system, I keep going until you tell me to stop.

  25. I like my partner to also get off. With the guys who have really good dick control, they usually hold back and then let go when I cum. But if I beat them there, they’ll just keep going. Unless I get oversensitized (uncommon for me), it’s pretty fun.

  27. Your partner will tell you. You can try exploring to get explosive, multiple orgasms, but stop when she’s overwhelmed already.

  29. That’s something you’ll have to ask her, only she knows if it feels good or not cuz she’s the one feeling anything šŸ™‚ just ask “keep going?” While she’s coming down or something and you’ll get your answer.

  30. You need to talk to her and ask. When I give my wife oral and she has orgasm she canā€™t be touched right after. If we have sex she cums and I can keep going and going. She can come 2-3 times back to back no problem. Every woman is different. If you really wanna make her happy just talk to her. Sheā€™ll appreciate the effort.

  31. I keep going unless she tells me to stop, she might want me to keep going one day, she might want me to stop on another day. I sometimes want her to keep going after I climax, sometimes I donā€™t want her to. It just depends on the mood.

  34. Ask your partner!
    For me itā€™s usually a yes. The other day I wrapped my legs around my bf, after we had both cum, so he didnā€™t pull out. He felt so good I didnā€™t want him to stop!

  35. Yes keep going, 1st orgasm opens the rest for others. If your good, make her cum 4 more times. Listen to her body and her needs

  36. Personally I love it when my partner keeps going, it sends me over the edge again and again, when they pass I like to participate more. However it’s almost like they are building to this huge orgasm which usually happens just before or at the same time as his. Never experienced those big ones before in my life and I’m usually comatose for a while after. Partner always has a massive smile on his face when looking at me afterwards and I’m barely conscious lol. I can hear him talking to me but not really able to move at that point lol.

    He makes me so so happy in general and the sex is amazing but I’m still hurting a lot from him posting looking for hookups in March and September and I can’t shake it. I keep thinking he is such a good liar, I never knew there was an issue before when he was telling me I look incredible and that he wants me but he telling other women the same thing. Don’t know if I can trust him at all, really fucking with my head big time.

  38. I can cum many times, so for me it’s not a problem. But you d better ask your partner about it/

  39. Yeah I confronted him about it and he just got mad deniedcanything actually happened, he doesn’t know I know about the post in March. He went on a fishing weekend for his birthday in March, the day he was going he posted ‘looking for females’ in North wales. He had a few women message him but from those messages it doesn’t seem anyone took the bait (I found all of this out in September). At the time in March when he went away for the weekend fishing, he managed one night instead of 2 stating that he was missing me too much and was super horny. I was super happy at the time and we had great sex when he came back but now, well now I’m wondering if it was because no one went for the hookup with him

  40. I make sure my girlfriend always finished before me so i swap between piv sex and giving her head then when shes finished ive pretty much edges myself enough where i can finish after 20 seconds of piv, ofc i always ask her first and if shes not feeling it then shell either give me oral or ill just manually do it and finish on her chest

  42. My wife likes me to carry on after she cums or depending what position we are in she will change to doggy and she will keep Cummings over and over reached 11 times in one session befor she couldn’t walk for a while after

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