Im 20M and never dated before. I never had any luck IRL or online, tried a handful of apps for 2 years and 0 matches, i even paid for some of them. I dress good, am confident, good hygiene etc. What can i do to have better luck IRL or online?

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  1. Online dating is about looks, and bio. Women look for reasons to reject while men look for reasons to approve.

    So typically for men, write less, 2-4 photos to show you/hobbies/social proof, and don’t attach any other social links.

    1 liner quirky bios work better than paragraph anyday.

  2. If you’re confident, then you have no problem approaching women I assume? Just approach enough women and some of them are bound to be mutually attracted.

  4. ‘eye contact’

    Are you able to respond to eye contact? eg. A girl across the room gives you ‘the eye’ (holds your gaze longer than normal, not just once but two or more times).

    Can you go up to her if she’s attractive to you, and introduce yourself? Perhaps engage her in conversation leading to an offer of a date (by you), or, exchange of texting numbers (with the objective of ultimately offering to date her via text).

  5. Try 28 years old lol. If you’re still in the same predicament in 3-5 years then it’s time to panic.

  6. Go to places where you can meet people take up a new hobby. Go to places where women hang out. Be brave and talk to people.

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