Update on Husband who didn’t call for a week – most of you were right. He was with someone

I posted two days ago asking if you would be upset if your s/o didn’t call for a week. I deleted the post because my sil is active on the sub and she might recognize the situation because we are friends.

When he came home, I held his phone to see what he was reading and his reaction was so strange, he asked for his phone back immediately and his mood changed. I asked why I can’t just hold his phone and I wasn’t scrolling but he got agitated so I gave him his phone back. I knew something was up. Then I started some “investigating” and I’m 95% sure he’s having an affair. He mentioned her name a few months ago when talking about a new hobby he picked up and I asked how he found out about it. He said from someone who worked with him (According to LinkedIn it was a lie but I never forgot the name)

I found her social media and I saw she went to a popular tourist destination on her birthday a few months ago. My husband was also there that same week. He came back from that same trip and I found new fenty make up in his bag, I don’t use fenty and he told me his colleague asked him to buy it. I believed it like a fool. So many more lies. He goes every month to the city she lives and I didn’t think much of it because the company he works for has an office there.

I’m heartbrokenm